thanks so much, I found that info out I know his wife is heidi, and crishild was my grandmother that has passed away. But I appreciate the information that you have found, and he is not listed in white pages, my dad got in contact with me and my phone broke and I lost his number and he no longer has mine because I changed the number. His wife didnt want him to have anything to do with me or my sister so therefore we never have met him, but he secretly got in contact with me over the phone and now I cant locate him again. If I did find a house number Heidi wouldnt allow me to speak with him or give him a msg from me. He is never home, I just feel lost and hope to find him soon. Thanks for all the support and help