I found this death of a child Harbert W. Holt. His parents are shown as Harbert Holt & Lilie Miller Crowder*

* is this your mother the child of Rufus Crowder

"Tennessee, Death Records, 1914-1955"
Name: Harbert W. Holt
Event Type: Death
Event Date: 18 Oct 1930
Event Place: Johnson City, Washington, Tennessee
Gender: Male
Race: White
Age: 0
Birth Year (Estimated):
Birth Date: 26 Jun 1930
Birthplace: Tenn.

Father's Name: Harbert Holt
Father's Birthplace: Tenn.
Mother's Name: Lilie Miller Crowder
Mother's Birthplace: Virginia

Address: 220 E. Fairview
Burial Place: Limestone
Burial Date: 19 Oct 1930
Informant's Name:
Additional Relatives:
Digital Folder Number: 004184113
Image Number: 01849
GS Film number: 1876770
Reference ID: cn 24336

"United States Census, 1920"
Name: Ruffes W Crowder
Event Type: Census
Event Year: 1920
Event Place: Fincastle, Botetourt, Virginia, United States
District: 60
Gender: Male
Age: 61
Marital Status: Married
Race: White
Race (Original): White
Can Read: Yes
Can Write: Yes
Relationship to Head of Household: Head
Relationship to Head of Household (Original): Head
Own or Rent: Rent
Birth Year (Estimated): 1859
Birthplace: Virginia
Father's Birthplace: Virginia
Mother's Birthplace: Virginia
Sheet Number and Letter: 14A
Household ID: 245
Line Number: 18
Affiliate Name: The U.S. National Archives and Records Administration (NARA)
Affiliate Publication Number: T625
GS Film number: 1821880
Digital Folder Number: 004392086
Image Number: 01003

Head Ruffes W Crowder M 61 Virginia
Wife Maggie Crowder F 39 Virginia
Son Norman W Crowder M 18 Virginia
Daughter Lillie Crowder F 16 Virginia
Daughter Louise N Crowder F 5 Virginia


"United States Census, 1910"
Name: Rufus W Crowder
Event Type: Census
Event Year: 1910
Event Place: Amsterdam, Botetourt, Virginia, United States
District: 52
Gender: Male
Age: 52
Marital Status: Married
Race: White
Race (Original): White
Relationship to Head of Household: Head
Relationship to Head of Household (Original): Head
Birth Year (Estimated): 1858
Birthplace: Virginia
Immigration Year:
Father's Birthplace: Virginia
Mother's Birthplace: Virginia
Sheet Number and Letter: 4A
Household ID: 63
Line Number:
Affiliate Name: The U.S. National Archives and Records Administration (NARA)
Affiliate Publication Number: M1283
GS Film number: 1375635
Digital Folder Number: 004455040
Image Number: 00862
Household Gender Age Birthplace
Head Rufus W Crowder M 52 Virginia
Wife Maggie Crowder F 27 Virginia
Son Norman W Crowder M 9 Virginia
Daughter Lillie M Crowder F 6 Virginia



"United States Census, 1900"
Name: Rufus Crowder
Event Type: Census
Event Date: 1900
Event Place: ED 48 Amsterdam District (Aunspaugh's Shop & Brugh's Mill Precincts) Fincastle town, Botetourt, Virginia, United States
Birth Date: May 1876
Birthplace: Virginia
Relationship to Head of Household: Head
Father's Birthplace: Virginia
Mother's Birthplace: Virginia
Race: White
Gender: Male
Marital Status: Married
Years Married: 3
Marriage Year (Estimated): 1897
Mother of how many children:
Number of Living Children:
Page: 13
Sheet Letter: B
Family Number: 169
Reference ID: 97
GS Film number: 1241701
Digital Folder Number: 004117869
Image Number: 00480

Head Rufus Crowder M 24 Virginia
Wife Maggie Crowder F 24 Virginia
Son Thomas Crowder M 3 Virginia

"United States Census, 1880"
Name: Rufus W. Crowder
Event Type: Census
Event Date: 1880
Event Place: Amsterdam, Botetourt, Virginia, United States
Gender: Male
Age: 22
Marital Status: Single
Occupation: Works On Farm
Race (Original): W
Ethnicity: American
Relationship to Head of Household: Son
Birthplace: Virginia, United States
Birth Date: 1858
Father's Name: James M. Crowder
Father's Birthplace: Virginia, United States
Mother's name:Mary S. Crowder
Mother's Birthplace: Virginia, United States
Page: 7
Page Letter: A
Entry Number: 552
Affiliate Film Number: T9-1356
GS Film number: 1255356
Digital Folder Number: 004244576
Image Number: 00391
Household Gender Age Birthplace
Self James M. Crowder M 72 Virginia, United States
Daughter Mary S. Crowder F 32 Virginia, United States
Daughter Harriet H. Crowder F 31 Virginia, United States
Son Rufus W. Crowder M 22 Virginia, United States
Son Benjamin Crowder M 17 Virginia, United States