hi Suz,
there is info on Glen Henry Stehbens (1908-1985) and many other Stehbens at MyHeritage

from The Advertiser (Adelaide, SA) 9 September 1947
... I, GLEN HENRY STEHBENS, of 155A Carlisle street, Glanville, will not be responsible for any debts contracted in my name without my written consent after this date

from The Advertiser (Adelaide, SA) 17 February 1950
... Glen Henry Stehbens, of Carlise street, Glanvllle, against Ruby Lockhart Stehbens of Broadwater, Victoria, for adultery with Lionel Andrew Smith, of Broadwater, Victoria

The Advertiser 10 December 1930
... BILSBOROW-STEHBENS - The marriage was celebrated at the Edithburgh Methodist Church on December 2 of Harry, son of Mr and Mrs Billsborow of Carlisle Street, Ethelton to Eva, daughter of Mr and Mrs H. Stehbens of Edithburgh.
The ceremony was performed by the Rey. J. C. Barrett, and Mr Horace Jordan presided at the organ. The bride entered the church on the arm of her uncle Mr C. T. Jenzen. The wedding gown was fashioned or Ivory crepe satin. A deep V centre front lent a soft finish to the closely moulded long-sleeved bodice, the sleeves terminating in tiny flares of georgette over the wrists. From a wide hip swathe the flared skirt hung in graceful folds to the instep. Over the frock hung a silk embroidered tuile veil, arranged with a tiara of orange blossom and seed pearls finishing in a tiny train. White court satin shoes and a shower bouquet of sweet peas, roses, and maidenhair fern completed the ensemble.
When leaving the church Miss M. Stehbens, of Alberton, aunt at the bride, hung a horseshoe on the bride's arm. There were two attendants; Misses Myrtle Bilsborow (sister of the bridegroom) and Melva Jenzen (cousin of the bride. Their frocks were carried out in powder blue and shell pink respectively.
The best man was Mr. Walter Gericke (cousin of the bridegroom) and Mr. Glen Stehbens, (brother of the bride) was groomsman.
The bride's mother wore a frock of black crepe de chine with fawn trimmings and hat to match. Navy crepe de chine relieved with beige and a smart hat to tone was selected by the mother of the bridegroom.
The reception was held at the residence of the bride's parents.
The bride travelled in a navy crepe satin frock, with two-tiered flared skirt.

The Advertiser 14 September 1937
... WILLING?STEHBENS ? The engagement Is announced of Ruby, younger daughter of Mr. and Mrs. T. Willing, of Brentwood, to Glen, eldest son of Mr. and Mrs. H. Stehbens.

The Advertiser 9 February 1939
... WILLING?STEHBENS ? The marriage of Ruby Lockhart, younger daughter of Mr. and Mrs Thos. Willing, Minlaton (late of Brentwood) to Glen Henry, eldest son of Mr. and Mrs. H. Stehbens, Edithburgh, will be solemnised at the Brentwood Methodist Church on Thursday, 16th February, at 7 p.m. Relatives and friends cordially invited to ceremony. No reception

13 Feb 1941 STEHBENS (nee Ruby Willing) ? At Minlaton Hospital, to Mr. and Mrs. Glen Stehbens, Brentwood, Y.P. ? a daughter (Colleen Glenice)

17 Feb 1944 STEHBENS (nee Willing) ? On Feb. 11, at Wolverton, to Ruby and Glen, of 155a Carlisle st., Glanville ? a son (Terence Leon)

This appears to be Glen's birth.

Name: Glen Henry STEHBENS.
Born: 29 October 1908, Edithburgh, South Australia.
Father: John Henry STEHBENS.
Mother: Anna Marie Pauline PAECH.
Ref: Registry of Births, South Australia. Book 812. Page 107.

Glen's parents marriage in case you don't have it.

Groom: John Henry STEHBENS.
Age: 29 years.
Status: Single.
Father: Jacob Henry STEHBENS.

Bride: Anna Maria Pauline PAECH.
Age: 25 years.
Status: Single.
Father: Johann Wilhelm PAECH.

Date married: 16 October 1907.
Place: Ev Luth Church, Edinburgh, South Australia.

Ref: Registry of Marriages, South Australia. Book 233. Page 277.

Every little bit helps.

Thank you very much ngairedith and tonkin.The information you have given me,is very exciting,and it is a great start to finding some lost family members.Not that they no I exist yet.Thank you both once again.

Suz I know it's been awhile, however there I a facebook Stehbens Family page if yu're interested, and a Reunion coming up in august 2015. Cheers