My name is Ngaire Mcneill (maiden name ADLAM).I was born at the Opunake cottage hospital 1953.Parents Thomas and Joan ADLAM(My Father took his Mothers maiden name)I have 4 Brothers and 2 sisters.Dad was born 14/12/1932 and died 15/1/1986,the family lived in Taumarunui,New Zealand.My Grand mothers name was Clara Daphne ADLAM.She had 4 children,3 daughters,Agness,May,Daphne and my Dad.
My granmother met this TURVEY man and had 4 children,they never married,apparently he had a wife and family living here in Australia.He went to New Zealand for work.He was deported back to Australia when he got into some trouble leaving my grandmother with 4 young children to bring up on her own.She died a couple of years later,the children were put into foster care
I do not know his first name or have any dates,i wonder if my Dad was named after his Dad THOMAS FREDRICK,had red hair and was a drinker.